Hey there,
('there' as in anyone who reads this blog...there may be someone somewhere who does ... ?)
So basically the past few weeks have not been the best in regards to my relationship with my boyfriend...
I guess it's because we have not seen each other much since the school holidays started and the only contact we've really had has been through facebook (which is always good ... *sarcasm*).
And I guess I'm just starting to feel a bit neglected - like I'm not really worth the effort.
He knows that I have been looking after my sister on weekdays and that I've also been working, but on the days when I'm avaibable it's just like ... well, like there's no point in trying to catch up.
He says that he wants to spend time with me, so he asked me to make sure I had this Sunday free. I wrote on the calender that I would be spending some of the day with him (once it's on the calender it's official in my household). But then he started trying to get me to organise it - like picking the place, times, etc, etc. I said that because he has asked me to go with him it was his job to organise all that.
I haven't heard anything on the matter from him since.
Also, it seems like everytime we go out to do something together he makes me organise all the details.
I don't know if all guys are like this, but for girls sometimes it's nice if the guy actually puts in the effort to arrange it all.
I know that my boyfriend doesn't have a casual job at the moment, but there are heaps of things you can do without money.
Sometimes it seems like he will put in more effort to go and do things with his friends than me, which is ok I guess ... but things are just feeling a bit one-sided...
I know this whole situation really isn't that bad - I'm not being physically abused, or threatened, or anything like that.
But would it really be that hard just to put in a little bit of effort?!
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